The truth is, it all comes down to communication. You probably, like me once, are on the verge of, or in the middle of divorce, because of communication, or lack thereof. You have needs. Your spouse or the other parent have different needs. You try to communicate and it just feels like your messages never get through.

 

Because I have been there, I know that much of the emotional turmoil stems from this lack of communication.  That's why even if there is infidelity or abuse, I take on the role, whether as your Coach, or as Mediator for both of you, of being a neutral third party who can start from today, put all the past aside and help my clients feel safe and heard so better communication can start to happen.

 

In every divorce or custody dispute, there is some level of pain and confusion on both sides. Untying the knots we may have thought would always be there is never easy. But, think of it in terms of actually unraveling a knot. If you approach a knot with haste and frustration, it's going to be very difficult to think clearly about what will untangle it. If you instead calmly gather the necessary information, you will know what you need to know to gently loosen the bond.

 

In your divorce or custody "knot," you have children and your financial future bound up. Let's talk about how you can cautiously untangle without an expensive and painful court battle--where everyone loses, either time, money, or the future you and your children deserve.